Family & Friends of Bipolar Support Group
This community is dedicated to parents, siblings, grandparents, other relatives and friends of someone who is Bipolar. The purpose of this community is to help families and friends develop greater patience and understanding, as well as maintain a positive, caring relationships with those diagnosed as Bipolar.

Episodes can be worse and more difficult to control. It's a classic BP mistake "I feel stable, I'll stop taking the meds".
I don't know why she is giving them up, the only reason I've heard doctors being okish with is where someone is pregnant..we have a few in the BP community that are like that. I suppose they are under close scrutiny by their doctors.
But, yes, this has to be discussed with the doctor..doing anything on your own could lead to a disaster.
But yes, talk to the doctor, lithium left me fogged AND it didn't keep me stable so she probably needs a new cocktail.