If the authorities have threatened to take your daughter away from your wife, if your wife talks to you, I would bet your wife still loves you and is simply doing what must be done to keep your daughter. How old is your daughter?

That in my opinion depends on the will of your love of your life, her propensity to forgive and her openness to allow God to show her that he teaches love and unconditional love can conquer all, I stress, its not love that conquers all, but unconditional love that conquers all.

I was very angry at first and I decided I was never speaking to the love of my own life again. But several months after that God did done work in me and I was open to listen. My heart was open and I forgave him. We became friends again and then, we eventually became lovers again. I'm thankful I was open because her truly is the love of my life and now I couldn't imagine my life without him in it.

God teaches us to hate the sin, but not the sinner. For a sinner asking for forgiveness shall be forgiven just as God forgives us all, we must forgive each other... I pray God speaks to your love and that she's open to receive his message and that ultimately, Gods will be done in your life...

Excuse my auto correct.... He truly is the love of my life, not her.

Justin, you said, "the love of my life... has said she wants nothing ever to do with me... " This is what the world teaches us that we are "supposed" to say. Your wife may not know any different. She may not know that there is a different way to look at this situation.

Patricia has demonstrated by her story that there is another way. That, even when the world tells us we are supposed to "hate", we can choose love instead. Unconditional love is truly key. The key is for YOU to have unconditional love for your wife. You cannot make her come back. You cannot control her behavior, but you can love her and accept the choices she has made.

This is not to deny the pain and loneliness you feel. You need to feel those. But unconditional love does conquer all. I conquers your pain and loneliness because love is the light that shines away the darkness (your pain and loneliness). As you focus on love for you wife, you will feel so much better.

She may come back, she may not. That is up to her. What is up to you is what you choose to focus on. Love or fear. Best wishes to you.

Peek

It takes time to get from shock, anger, depression, then beginning to feel again. She may be doing what they tell her to do to keep her child. Maybe later things will change. I know I forgave him fairly quickly, but it took almost a year before I truly felt I could be his wife and stick with him. Seeing his change of heart and knowing what a good person he really is, made me realize I could stay.