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The greater challenge might be from someone whose sex crime had nothing to do with sex, or anything to do with children - as the state of New York is sterotyping all sex offenders into one category, e.g. child molestors, when that is clearly not the case.
I think there are a lot of misconceptions. One of the biggest is that child porn would not exist if there was no one to buy it. Believe me, it would still exist. Children that are raped, sold, tortured would still exist even if no one ever bought another photograph. Using the same brush to paint all is dangerous. It focuses the public on a huge range of sex crimes instead of focusing them on the violent offenders. The dilution of focus has cost this country much in both expense and effectiveness of protecting our children.
Yet another example of how our society increasingly puts itself in greater danger in the name of public safety. Oxy Moronism at its best.
Whats next?? SO's cant mow their yards, or mail a letter. Its complete BS and makes me madder than a wet hen.
First, it completely blurs the line between government and private corporations. It puts them all in bed with each other to the point that when (and not if) something goes wrong who is going to be left to investigate them? Nobody, that's who.
Second, where does this sort of thing stop. These acts are based on hypothetical situations occurring in that a sex offender might come across a child. But this rationale can be applied to practically everything in society. So, where does it end?
Third, it furthers the notion that parents do not need to take any sort of responsibility for parenting their children, nor be held accountable when things go wrong. In our techonological quest we are doing a great deal of damage.
In review of individual state laws related to the legal age to consent, states vary between the legal age being 16 to 18. Though many states have exemptions that allow someone in their underage teens to have sex with another so long as the have sex with someone who is within a 3 to 5 year age range.
In other words, in Alabama if you are 55 years old you can have sex with a 16 year old legally, yet, if you live in California, and are 55 you can only have sex with someone that is 18 for it to be legal and thus, by the standards of California, those who live in Alabama and have sex with a 16 year old are sex offenders.
The problem is, the public opinion of those in California influence those who live in Alabama by virtue of federal laws, even though the public opinion in California is based on an entirely different set of so-called moral beliefs and laws from what exists in Alabama.
The point being here is that we are a nation of hypocritical beliefs and contradicting avocations.
The legal age of consent in Kansas (where the conversation occurred) is 16 - I could have had sex with this person legally. How ridiculous is that????
That said, whether it is an agreement or a "law" they tend to give a false sense of safety because anyone wishing to victimize children by such online gaming can easily create false email addresses, user names and so forth.
Of course one could argue that if government were genuinely concerned they would pass laws that criminalize the actions of corporate officials who do not take measures to protect children from online preditors - just as they would criminalize the actions of parents who do not use parental control to help ensure the safety of their own children.
But like so many things in politics, sex offenders have become the new photo op to get elected.
And what is even more ridiculous to me is that my federal "pretrial release" officer demanded that I not even GO TO Facebook because it is against their policy for me to have an account there - like the federal probation office is now charged with enforcing Facebook's rules??
These things really get my goat.
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