Hello to all my friends. I think it is the second time I post something on the blog. This time I need someone who hugged me because I am feel very sad. Let me tell you a little bit about my situation, some of you already know. My husband is in jail since May 1 this year in the state of Florida, the worst states for sexual offenders or one of the worst. He pleaded guilty to one count of posession of child pornography and is a federal level.

This morning I talked with my husband's lawyer and told me that he will probably have to register as a sex offender for life. I do not understand he never distributed, not reproduced and most importantly has never touched a minor, have to spend the rest of his life with the stigma that society point out us, reject us and make us less by the simple fact of a mistake or curiosity. Please do not judge me I'm not defending what my husband did I honestly do not understand how is people out there who commit more horrific, violent , degrading acts, etc. and even they are not given the same attention and condemnation.

For the last five months I have cried so much that I think I'm out of tears. Now the most painful is that I moved to Virginia a month before all this happened, because those were our plans. In April I came first and then he would meet with me but unfortunately that will not be possible.

He will try to be moved to a prison in Virginia. I miss him every single day and ask God for strength to continue and so we can go through this difficult time in our lives.

This year has an even more important meaning on December 18 we would celebrate our anniversary number ten besides that this Christmas will be a sad one.

Thank you all for taking the time to read.

Befranco