My mom is harsh and judgmental as well. My fiance's charge is CP as well.

My mom jumped to the conclusion and tried to push me to believe he was a child molester and kept telling me to leave him. Expect a lot of questions and expect to have to explain everything. It is up to you two on how you want to explain, or if you even want to. You two are the only ones that know what happened and the circumstances surrounding such.

You have been with him through this. You both have stuck by each other. I told my parents through an email, my fiance told them. I think that subdued a lot of the initial rage they felt. My mom looked at me and my fiance through very different eyes after she was told about it.

She is going to be quite enraged at you for this, especially for not telling her for 2 years.

I don't know your mom, or your fiance's relationship with her.

Things have calmed down quite a bit since I've told her. I told her last April, and my parents have become quite fond of my fiance.

I can't tell you things are going to work out, but just go in expecting the worst.

Have you asked him the tough questions, i mean the real tough questions. Because I'm pretty sure based on how you described your mom she will ask them, and I'll bet he and you wont like them.
Here's a couple sample questions she might ask: Is he still turned on by kids, because getting caught doesn't stop the attraction. What happens when the honeymoon period ends, will he seek out kids. What about you having kids, because that could be very problematic. Etc, etc.

We meet with her in about an hour. My mom absolutely adores my fiancé and has been the only guy in my life that she actually hugs and kisses when she sees him. I am expecting the worst, our therapist said its good to imagine it being at its worst because then we feel a bit prepared. I am expecting a lot of questions or just silence and having her cry. She is usually either one of those. She is a cold shoulder type of woman too if she can't find words to say. So nervous but telling her will help with this burden of carrying this alone. Everyone else we have told has been supportive. Thank you for bringing up the realistic things that could happen.

Savannah - any update?

Savannah, how did your mom take it?

Savannah, Your mom may be upset and disapproving at first but she will probably come around. My mom didn't approve of Jon at all once she found out his charges, but today she see's how much we love each other and how good he is to me.. She has even said that she thinks I am better off with Jon than I ever was with my ex. She'll come around. Just give her time