My son has been incarcerated since the age of 28. Three and a half years now. He has done really well since he got moved to the prison he is in, doing good with the structure and going to Bible studies in church, stays to himself and gets along with others when he has to be around them and he is working. So what is the problem? His roommate left the other day to go to a different prison, time for his classes. His roommate put money on his books for his birthday and for Christmas, has been really good to him. They got along really well. His roommate ask his sister if my son could give her his Facebook information to log in and get pictures of his buddies, Harmless pictures of just guys that he hung out with in bands, etc. I sent him postcards with a picture each time on it and it turned out I was duplicating pictures and I just didn't have time to go on his page and find which ones I sent and which ones I didn't. He decided to ask the sister of his roommate if she would go on his page and get his pictures. He then decided to ask her if she would send a picture of his ex-girlfriend and her kids, the family that he offended. I got a call from her today while I was at the dentist and she wanted to talk to me. When I told him that tonight and that I didn't know why she had called he didn't really say anything. He called me back a while later and said his stomach was in not that he had asked for a picture of his ex-girlfriend and the kids. He asked me to change his login information so she couldn't get in there and I did. All of her pictures of been deleted, he doesn't know that they aren't there anymore. He was a professional photographer of storms and music and bands. that is mostly what he wanted but I am very very scared about him asking for her picture and the two boys. I don't know if this lady will go to someone and tell them, I don't know if she wants to tell me, I don't know what to say or do! I don't know why he can't get a clue. I don't understand why they sit in prison four five six seven eight years with no classes to help get them on the road to recovery! They sit there and sit there with idle time and nothing to do to help get them better! Can someone please explain this to me This is a fine example of how our prison system is failing, they are not doing what they need to do to help these guys. Does anyone know if there's someone you can go to to push along their time to get help, to get counseling, to get classes started so he doesn't have to sit there for 4 years more. This is torn our family apart, his brothers want nothing to do with him. My brother and I are the only ones that do without us you would have nobody. Part of me wants to stop supporting him in prison until he can get it together but I feel that would be mean .can someone please give me advice tell me what you would do if you were in this situation? I love my son and out of the three I know that when he gets out and I am almost 70 years old he will be the one taking care of me if needed. The other two just don't care. I would really appreciate any words of wisdom from anyone out there going through a sex offender problem. Thank you so much.