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Kloea56
Kloea56

Good evening... I just needed to write because I feel so lonely and hopeless... 


My husband got arrested in June for cp... It has been a terrible shock for me. I left my country, family school, everything for him and this is what happened... We have an absolutely wonderful child together and my heart hurts for her so much. He hasn't had a sentence yet be I fear it will be a long one. 


We lost everything , our house his job, car etc...I am trying to build myself back together little by little each day but it's hard. I am also very scared this will affect my immigration status and I am so so afraid for my daughter that she is probably gonna grow up without her dad. I am scared that they will take her from me although I have absolutely nothing to do with it and cps closed our case because obviously they saw that she was in a safe environment.


They raid my house at 6 in the morning and within the 3secondes of the police entering my house I have lost everything. It is so painful. Sleeping is becoming harder. I am extremely stressed and need some support. 

TriTon999
TriTon999
Just hang in there. I am caught up in a CP case now, not interested in children but made a dumb decision to poke around in the wrong places which has landed me where I am at now. That being said it has been hard to stay upbeat, but you have to keep it moving. Venting is always good. So vent when you can. Everyone needs support. If you have any questions feel free to ask. I've been fighting this for 3 years so I'm pretty knowledgeable on the subject matter...not by choice of course.
Kloea56
Kloea56
Thank you. Im mostly worried for you. I can tell he is very depressed and is waiting on his sentence. I really want him to find a job after all of this and I really hope things will get back to normal.
Even tho it seems impossible.
UKApril
UKApril
Hi
I know just how hard it is waiting to find out what will happen, it's like being in limbo. My husband was arrested a year ago for downloading indecent images of children and was recently convicted. He is waiting now for his sentencing hearing and has been told that he is likely to go to prison. I have such mixed feelings towards him and sometimes I feel as if I will explode. It's so hard to try and live a normal life, especially in front of my grandchildren.