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I go back and forth on FB. I'm not on it to troll people or cause wars. I don't search for people I work with or people I went to school with that I haven't spoken to in years. I use it to look at pictures of what my family and friends are doing, share jokes or find recipes people are trying. My family and friends are all over the country and travel quite a bit, so seeing pictures and stories of that make my day.
The sex offender comments are disturbing. The thing I've noticed is they only post stories of the most vile ones, the true predators or they completely distort the story. Those are the ones that are reported, so unfortunately that is what people are going to think all sex offenders are.
The world is changing. For the good or bad? I haven't really decided yet. FB perpetuates a lot of the bad, but I have also seen some good. I stay away from it most of the time. I've found it to be more of a negative influence and I don't need that. I'm not in a position to fix what is wrong out there right now. I'm focusing on getting my life together and working on the issues going on that I know I can help. I'm there for my friends and family, the rest of the FB world, sometimes all I can say is "wow."
now there are a few of them that are actually reading the articles and i've actually gotten replies back that i have kinda changed their thinking a little.
not much? but i think each chink out of the wall of blindness and ignorance helps.
like i said it's not much but it beats 'nothing' every time!!!
I only use Facebook to keep in touch with family and friends. I will also share the occasional joke or funny picture. I keep my page private (just family and friends) and I still VERY SELDOM post anything. I think the last time I posted an "update" was in May when I hit a year cancer free. If it weren't for family, I would have no use for Facebook.
Echo, congrats on being able to change some peoples way of thinking. :)
i think that this is why i post what i do on my fb. i know that i can't outright and immediately change anyone's mind but i hope that i can maybe make someone curious and in doing so just maybe i can open a few eyes. if i can make them curious then they might actually finish reading the complete article and then maybe do a little checking out of things themselves. and that is what i think may have happened.
so yeah, i might get an outright, "anyone who does that is a perv and needs to be shot". but if i can change their minds or even make them wonder or think a little bit differently? then i can feel kinda satisfied with that.