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I also agree with the So's not being allowed in parks - but they allow murderers, drug traffickers, etc in them and they can do more harm then an SO. Maybe some day they will realize that not just SO's are people they need to worry about around Children. They say SO's have the least reoffenders so why the tough laws. Plus most are not out for an unknown child as they say most sex offenses happen to people they know - family. I know if my husband gets out I will be more cautious around kids in the family even though I believe he has learned from this and will never do anything like this again.
A person who did committ an offense, will serve decades behind bars, yet the vicitim is still breathing and living. Our sentenses need to be more fair, and they aren't.
My point is that getting angry has always been the first step when making changes in a country. It is the way our country was born, we were angry about being taxed by the British government without representation in parliament. And they were increasing our taxes over here because they could. Which is what started our Boston Tea Party...
I am a firm believer in Karma, that boy will get his, it might take 20 years but what goes around comes around... I agree, he committed a couple of felonies not including the the vehicular homicide. He may not deserve life in prison, but he should spend some time in jail, ADULT jail where he'll end up if he doesn't change his way of being. Maybe some sessions with the victims he has killed familes? Or if any of those victims had children, handwritten letters apologizing for taking their parents or family members from them. I would even say that the boy should do some PSAs as well put his face all over the place so that people will know that it is him that did it. Then for the icing, have him move to Janesville, WI where he will be required to register as a drunk driver, his address won't be public until he commits 3 offenses but he'll be on a list!
As my dad has told me all my life... "Money talks, bullshit walks."
So because this boy's father is rich, that gives him the right to not be punished? Like I said when I started this, that boy that did the childhood prank streaking was only 15 or 16 and they wanted to put him on the SO list, which made the boy hang himself! This damn system needs to change and NOW!!!!
People get to have new lives once they murder people, but consensual sex is a crime? Give me a break! Way back then our parents were married at 14 and 15 years old. Its just an easy way of the Justice/Political System to make money off of hard working families. It apparently will not even touch the dad's pocket book for spending the money that he will be spending and I would not doubt if he is out of that place within one to two years!
Also, I know the county jail is making money hand over foot just from the phone calls between my husband and I, but the economy is suffering on the outside because of his loss of income! I told him one day that I hadn't spent more than $20 at Walmart in one visit since he's been gone, and he said, "and they haven't come to the house to see if you're ok?" lol
As I've said before, I'm new to all of this, but I have NO faith in the justice system anymore, and I've told my kids NOT to trust the police. Protect and serve my A$$!
I started keeping track on how much phone calls, commissary , books were costing me but I gave up. I know we maxed out what he was allowed to get. At times it was a little tough but i always sent my son something.