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I know that seems a truly strange thing to see on here but I felt, coming from a complete stranger, it might carry some weight.
I see so many folks on here who are suffering due to a situation regarding their husband/wife.
Having to deal with the reality of this kind of a situation from a completely different angle. Holding a home together aline rather than with their partner by their side.
Time and again I see something that makes me see hope in an otherwise dark place.
I see time and again the words "it's hard but I am sticking by them" or "I love them"
I am not so blessed as to have a life partner. However that doesn't mean that your loyalty and dedication doesn't have an impact. Seeing so many of you being in the dark yourselves and still holding out that torch for your loved one means the world to someone like me.
Thank you.
Thank you all for believing in the best of your other. Knowing that mistakes come in some pretty ugly wrapping paper, sometimes. That people are not just the total sum of a bad choice.
In a world where others block out the colors of their own houses by raging against the colors of their neighbors, knowing there are SOME people who, hold out arms instead of shaking fists, is a blessing.
I see so many folks on here who are suffering due to a situation regarding their husband/wife.
Having to deal with the reality of this kind of a situation from a completely different angle. Holding a home together aline rather than with their partner by their side.
Time and again I see something that makes me see hope in an otherwise dark place.
I see time and again the words "it's hard but I am sticking by them" or "I love them"
I am not so blessed as to have a life partner. However that doesn't mean that your loyalty and dedication doesn't have an impact. Seeing so many of you being in the dark yourselves and still holding out that torch for your loved one means the world to someone like me.
Thank you.
Thank you all for believing in the best of your other. Knowing that mistakes come in some pretty ugly wrapping paper, sometimes. That people are not just the total sum of a bad choice.
In a world where others block out the colors of their own houses by raging against the colors of their neighbors, knowing there are SOME people who, hold out arms instead of shaking fists, is a blessing.
There are good people in the world. Just a shame the morons shout louder!
I have never loved anyone as much as I love him. He has been the only one who loves me for my quirks, my stubbornness, my temper, my weird sense of humor and my curves. He has been my rock, when I didn't have any strength, and I am his.
Someone will love you for you. They won't see the label, they will see you, and know you are not the person you were then.
There was a time we had both been involved with so called 'people on the spiritual path' but after my son was sent to prison they shut their doors to me. I have tried to accept their anger to him but after preaching about love and compassion let alone the power of forgiveness i have had to move on but once again have found love and compassion in a very unexpected place!
thank you for not shaking a fist but opening your arms to us all .
I too have thought the same things as you just posted I am also a bachelor that so many times have only wished for the love I see some of these ladies here express about their husbands or boyfriends. I so often wish for that love to but feel because of my charges I am undeserving and am too doomed in order to experience it. Thank you for posting what I myself feel just not as good with words. I admire the guys in these ladies lives. Them guys have found their true treasure chest. No better treasure in this world than to have someone that loves you no matter what. God has blessed them with the best gift in life... A good partner that is completely true to their love.
What I meant when was when we are both dead and buried in the ground!
As I go through the morass of sex offender registration, I can safely say that the spouses and families of registered citizens are some of the most heroic people I have met along the way. You are all to be commended for the way you carry yourselves and keep yourselves and your families together through very challenging situations.