At the time my 23 yr old teacher daughter got caught up w sexual advances of some football players.  Thank God she didn't go to prison, however, she is now a SO3.  Her husband blames himself as he says he neglected her and she wouldn't have done this had he been a more loving hands on husband.   He stayed w her and they now have 2 beautiful babies together but the SO3 haunts us all as her mugshot is at the sheriffs Dept and Facebook.   She will one day have to tell her 3 and 2 year old daughters she is a SO3.  She was due for a reassessment over a year ago and hasn't been contacted yet.   She was an excellent student (3rd in her class, did mission work as a student, head of the Christian organization at School, on the Deans list several times at College etc etc etc).  This has been so very hard on me.  Her husband is a teacher/coach and she's not even allowed to attend his school to support him.   She will have to homeschool her children as she's not allowed at any school.   These SO sentences are so extreme - and these students were of age.   I sometimes wonder if we should hire a lawyer to fight this - we did appeal their decision yet it did no good.   I live next door to a daycare and she can't even spend the night w me.   Like she's a predator of the very young (NOT).   The SO in our state is so hard - not considering the ages of these men!   Just need a sounding platform as I struggle with deep depression due to this.   Our community is no longer there for us - even shunes us.   Old friends avoid me now when I see them at Walmart and I never hear from my old friends.   I know I should be thankful she didn't go to prison as we wouldn't have these 2 beautiful babies.   Louisiana is trying to come up with legislation to castrate SO's.   I sent every rep and Senator a letter telling them about my daughter and how Unjust that would have been to not allow her to have children which is the high point of her life.   It gave her meaning even given the situation she is in.   They own their own house and she is self employed.   I babysit a couple times a week so she can work.  Would appreciate any feedback you all have for me and how to deal w the depression I suffer daily.  It haunts me to the core.  Don't want to get on antidepressants as I pride myself not being on any pharma meds.