Families of SOs Community Group
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Reporting new jobs & new residence I would say are very important. You have limited time to report it to the PO and police department. That's an important one.
As far as honest and upfront on job apps.. I don't know about that one. This country forces us Not to be honest just so we can survive.
Simply put, you will go to jail for FTR!!! In most states, and the Fed, FTR is a FELONY...In some states, like mine, if your conviction was a misdemeanor, then FTR is also, but is still 90 days MANDATORY, the Judge has no say in the matter except to give more time.
As for being up front about felonies on a job app, if the app asks, just put down 'yes', what else can you really do? Most companies really only care about drug and theft convictions.(obviously working around kids is a different story).n I am registered, but also have a security clearance.(I work in the defense and aerospace industry).
You ask for personal experience, I've been registered since 2003, to be honest, convicted of a misdemeanor not a felony, and because my state rejects the Adam Walsh Act, this time next year I will no longer be registered.
Some here will disagree with me,n but the best thing to do is "Play the Game" and do what is required. My PO came by for the first 6 or 7 months of probation, only came inside twice, event though I invited him in every time and I was always 30 minutes early to my monthly check in and he released me 18 months early from probation...He was a good guy, but those who screwed with him?? Also, the cops only come by every year or two, they have better things to do, exact words from a detective.
My son's PO makes monthly visits but he never comes in. Sometimes he doesn't even get out of his car. as far as the police, they come by about twice a yr, once in the spring and again in the fall (he registers in the winter and summer).
also, he has been putting off registering at my residence. and has yet to report new job. Im sure he has not yet reported the job because he's afraid they'll contact the employer and he'll loose the job. He doesn't want to deal with the humiliation of going through the card notifications again as he just did a couple months ago when he had to move to his current (registered) address. I'm so scared for him...
now this child support bullshit has started, and his ex is running his registry info all over the web, talking a bunch of sh*t... It makes me so sick and furious. How could someone who loves and want the best for their children post that crap all over the internet where their child who supposedly was a victim of him has to see it?!?!?!