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One of my favorite sayings is:
Forgiveness is the fragrance the violet sheds on the heel that crushed it.
I'm still learning how to be like that.
My daughter wanted to see my husband to talk and try to understand why and try working on forgiving him. Unfortunately the warden and victim services will not allow it. She would have to go through a program thay would take at least a year and then no guarantee she would be able to see him face to face.
I lnow I'm not his victim but i know being able to see and talk to him has helped me in so many was. I jave forgiven him for what he did. I will never forget what he did and i do not approve or agree with what he did either. He has to earn my trust back which will be a difficult thing as i do not trust easily anymore.