So my boyfriend has been in jail about a month and a half now. At first it seemed almost impossible to do this but now I'm feeling a little better. I have developed my own routine and I've been communicating with him as much as possible. It's expensive but I've just cut back on other expensives that aren't all that important. No need to get my nails done if my man's locked up haha
So besides working a lot I've been writing him a lot of letters however I've ran out of things to write about. I wrote him an erotic story about him and I hahahaha oh boy did he enjoy that HAHA! I made him a crossword with questions all about me to see if he could answer them correctly haha I've written tons of letters talking about him and I and life and such. I have also sent tons of pictures, music lyrics and poems. I'm running out of creative ideas of things to write about to him... if anyone has any ideas I'd love to hear them! I'm open to pretty much anything.
This has been really hard trying to have a relationship with him while he's locked up. His lawyer said that he may only be doing 10-16 months but we don't know forsure until he gets sentenced. I don't want to get my hopes up. I know his case isn't the worst case out there however his past isn't the best so he defiently has that going against him. I'm just trying to stay positive and focused on myself. I hate how everything is so unknown. I think that's what is bothering me the most. Once we have an idea of when he'll be released then we can finally make plans and start looking forward to something. This not knowing thing I feel is the hardest part of this whole thing... that and the fact that I can't see him in person the jail he's in only does video visits and the connection is horrible.
he has a public defender for a lawyer - his case is federal. I have been trying to find him a new lawyer however the retainers are all $5,000+ and they wont do a payment plan of any sort. I'm hoping his public defender is a good one. It feels like he doesn't pay much attention to his case but I don't know much about these things. He just barely got his discovery the other day. I just hope things work out for him and sooner the better!
Lastly does anyone know anything about medical care in the federal system? I need some advice on that if someone could message me I have a few questions about that.
I just can't wait for this to be over so we can start our life together..... I keep telling myself that the time will go by quickly and before I know it he will be back home with me bugging me day in and day out like he always used to. hahaha Oh i miss him even when he got on my nerves.. I miss everything.
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My son is still in prison, but does want to return to Virginia. I am researching and researching other states that we could move to before he is released to make his life easier. Virginia has a life "sentence" on the registry as do many states and I understand he can petition to be removed after 15 years. But I am at my wits' end to try to find some place suitable. And the laws are...