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So Miserable

patnard
patnard
Oh boy, I just got the sweetest email from my husband, I can't stop crying. I was already missing him, this is a bad month and when he told me how much he misses me and I'm the only one who can make him feel the way I do it made me miss him even more. I know I should be used to this, it's seems like it's been forever since he's been home but I'll tell ya some days are really bad and today is one of those days.
I'm just so angry about everything today, I don't want to talk to anybody and I haven't gotten out of bed all day. I hate these days, I want them to end and I want this to end and I want my husband home NOW !!
Last night on the news it had this big thing about some of the guys he got in trouble with, my husband had never been in trouble before and these guys are repeat offenders and they are getting out in a few months what the F, I just don't get it. I think that's what put me in this crappy mood today.
Thanks for letting me vent!!
angeladam
angeladam
I'm so sorry, Pat, and I've been angry all night. It's taking so long to get to sentencing, and we aren't having a trial, so what's the benefit? He won't get time served if he goes to Shock, so it's just our life draining away while the injustice system continues to fail us. I'm sorry it's been unfair to you and your husband. And I feel lately like the days get harder and harder, not easier.
tsmom2012
tsmom2012
Sorry for how you are feeling we all go through these days. Mine was Saturday - nothing seemed to go right. I got really upset and mad when my daughter told me there was a leak in their tub and I got mad at my husband for not being here to fix it and me trying to figure out what was wrong. Well I finally did figure it out and got it fixed, but the anger was there not only because he wasn't here but a lot of other things that also happened that day. When I was done and alone I sat and cried for about an hour. Then I wrote to him and told him how I was feeling. He felt bad. Just take it one day at a time.
ihatewisconsin
ihatewisconsin
Oh Pat, I wish there were words to fix what ails you. I remember those days. Hopefully tomorrow will be better. When you are going through this, you always are a big bunch of emotions. Maybe it's time for the good emotions to hit.

Sometimes it's best not to read or watch the news about those kinds of things.

VENT anytime you want, on here or to me on a message. I sure vented for over 3 years. Still do sometimes and he is home.
october2014
october2014
"Dislike" as they would say on Facebook.