Its ok i was the same as you when my man first went in. Yes those phone calls are so good! Try not to stress to much about them moving him they normally do it with no warning he will call as soon as he can iam sure his worried about you as well.
Yes do go see the doctor about it the stress of it can do number on you.
Hugs

You've got to take some deep breaths and try to relax or you're not going to be able to handle this for another 5 years as you're driving yourself nuts and it's only been 5 days. I say this not to sound mean or belittle your feelings about the situation, just I've been in those shoes (still am) and your mind and it's way of thinking can mess your body up physically and it's not fun at all! I had hives they wouldn't end all because I didn't get my weekly letter. You have to remember he loves you and isn't purposely ignoring you; there's things that are out of his control and rules/regulations he has to follow.

Sometimes when I feel that way I'll write to him about what we're going to do when he comes home, or what our first meal will be, anything to get your mind off of not getting that letter/phone call. Go to the store and pick out a card or two for him, they don't have to be the super expensive kind, trust me Dollar Tree is my BFF! Just try to keep your mind positive and not to worry so much, yes it's easier said than done at times, and at times you will just cry and that's ok too. I don't know if he has a strong support system with his family, but if he doesn't like mine, you're going to have to be his shining star!

Yes I agree with Suchaslife go see your doc and if you need meds that's ok too! Trust me I love my happy pills :P Sending big hugs!

Thank y'all.

He called today and assured me he is ok. I feel like I can breath again. I think it scares me because he is so sweet laid back and calm natured and he lets people take advantage of him.

I totally understand what your talking about heartbroken2017. I think the worst part for me is all the crazy places my mind goes when he misses that call or letter. He's only been gone 50 days and it feels like forever

Hey heartbroken2017, it's an absolutely horrible time! I remember those first few weeks and months, they nearly destroyed me but it does get easier. I can assure you of that! My fiance has been away since November 2014 and we have until September 2019 to go. Just take it one day at a time hun.

As Gregsbaby mentioned, write him. These days I write 1 to 2 times a week and I am fortunate enough to be able to see him weekly but in those early days I would write daily, even multiple times a day. Some I would send him, some I would tear up and others I have kept (almost as a reminder for me that I made it through what I thought would kill me).

You will get through this. x

I been feeling just like you. Is been 6 days since my husband was incarcerated. I cry everyday, I worry that I won't see him again. 16 years together and now he is away. We are going to miss his birthday, our Anniversary. I'm totally heart broken. I'm glad that I found this group. Reading everyone's stories gives me strength, gives me hope and I know I'm not alone. I hope you feel better soon. Keep your head high, believe I know is hard but we are all fighting a blattle and we need encouragement to continue.