Families of Prisoners Support Group
This community is dedicated to families that have been disrupted by prison. Having a loved one incarcerated or having been incarcerated comes with its own unique challenges that require support and understanding. Join the group to find others who know what you're going through, and to seek advice or share your experience.
I'm not in the same situation but a little similar in that I met my now fiance while he was in and had about 6 months to go before he got out. Long story short he was home for about a month and his parents died within 6 months of each other so he did some stupid s**t to "cope" that landed him back in. During that time I got married and had a baby, but we still loved each other. Fast forward to now I lost my husband and my fiance and I got back together and he's very happy to be a dad to my son! When he's old enough I'm going to tell him about his dad and my fiance is his "bonus" dad (I hate the term "step").
So if you've found out if you are please tell both of them because they both need/deserve to know and your child needs/deserves to know about his dad and/or future bonus dad.