I know how you feel, I kicked myself when my hub called and I didn't answer. I would be honest with him as to why you didn't answer and how terrible you felt for missing his call.

Remember, he is in a bad place, where others will put doubt in his mind about your feelings for him. Just keep reminding him daily your feelings. As far as "friends" go, if they can't support you, then they aren't friends.

I've missed calls--usually i'm at work and can't answer. It's gonna happen, and it sucks. Your explanation as to why you missed the calls should be enough. He's got to know that you don't have your phone in your hand at all times. He'll probably try again tomorrow...and when you apologize profusely, he'll probably laugh and tell you it's ok. (at least that's what my guy would do)
as for the guy who "can't be your friend if you continue to talk to your man" he doesn't sound like he was that great of a friend to begin with, if he can't be supportive of you. You don't need negativity, and it's ok to banish it from your life.
I hope you hear from your guy soon. I hope court went well...and I hope your friends pull their heads out of their butts. Don't be stressing yourself out...there are many bigger battles than a missed phone call...take some you time and relax. it sounds like you need it.

When my husband was shipped almost 3,000 miles away and i didn't hear from him for days almost 2 weeks he called for some reason it didn't go through anyways i end up calling the prison and the lady who was really nice said she would let him know to call me back she did say she isn't suppose to do this and like 5 min laters he called... you will miss calls but my husband has both my cell # and house phone.... but when I missed that call I cried :( but he will call back so maybe give your bf your house # too so if you don't hear cell

He will call back yes I've kicked myself for missing his calls to we now after 3 years worked out what times he can call....my work gets crazy if there's a storm or something...so we go by the weather as well!
Just explain to him what happened. As for the mate who said that well sorry but a true mate would never say something like that let alone put it on fb.

Don't beat yourself up. I can understand, but don't beat yourself. One thing I thought about is most of our guys want us to be involved and not sit around depressed. If we are involved in activities sometimes we may not be able to grab the phone-just a thought. I worry about that with me starting work, so I put in my letter what my hours probably will be, hoping he can call later in the day. Now as for "friends" kick those to the curb if they can't love and support you through this. You are doing what you need for your life, not theirs! Hey, I'm "cleaning" house here espcially on Facebook.

I missed a few too. It ends up ok. My cell phone doesn't ring as many times as he heard it in his phone. He would hang up after he heard four rings, and I would maybe barely hear one. Beware of that too. Call your phone from another phone, you will see. It's a delay or something. And yea, we pretty much have to have them duct taped to our head or hands, all of the time if we want those calls, but there will be times you are busy and won't hear it or will miss it.

As far as that so called friend, get rid of him. He has NO business telling you to get rid of the person you love. My god, would they? They can't see what they are saying is rude and cruel?? Well then, who needs THEM. I cleaned house on people that used to call themselves my friends. You find out who is important and who is not. Do it. Turn it around. Tell him, you do not need him in your life, and anyone else that says mean, stupid, immature things. Oh, can you tell my blood is boiling on this one? Who the hell gives them the right to judge or decide who we love? My family did that. Needless to say some of them aren't in my life anymore, much, either.

People who don't live in your house, and aren't active in your life, but decide what you should do are so damn wrong. People don't understand or try to because they THINK it would never be a part of their world. SURPRISE PEOPLE, REALITY check, none of us thought anything like this would happen to us, either, but it did.

Let me talk to the jerk, I will tell him off for you.

Have a good day. I better go clean. Your friend ticked ME off, for you.

Well, he did call today. I apologized profusely! He had good news to tell me last night. I told him my phone was in my purse upstairs and on vibrate... I now have the ringer on and I don't go anywhere.. even to the bathroom,,, without it.. He has had charges in two different courts.. two charges were dropped yesterday in one court.. unfortunately, not charges that are really that bad.. but two less charges is good news.. no more two courts to deal with. We still have some steep charges to faceoff but its a start. I only have a cell phone and he knows, had he not been in jail, it would be attached to me .. I never missed a text. I never missed a fb posting. nothing.. ever.. he is there and I've gone lax with the cell because he's the only one I cared to know what was going on with.. I'm happy he called. I did a lot of crying until he finally did call me today when I was at work... It was so good to hear his voice...

As far as the male friend, he doesn't get what my man means to me. He just thinks that I need to organize my priorities. He thinks I should let him deal with this on his own. No Way! He needs me now more than he ever did... I'm going to be here for him no matter what that means.. I'm never missing another call. I put a very obnoxious christmas song on so that when it goes off it'll make me rush to get it... lol..