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I may be leaving????

Mamabear59
Mamabear59
All I have to say is to any one that has a long bid in front of them, think twice about doing the bid with your love one. I mean its all cool if you had a street relationship, "A GOOD STREET RELATIONSHIP", then you may want to the bid with a person, but if you meet a person through writing, and you want to stand by that persons side think very long and hard about it and do not let your heart take control, let them go if your mind is telling you to do so. Most of you know me, I don't know how many of you will read this, but if your reading please reply, cause I don't know if I'm hanging around here any more after two weeks go bye? Those who know me over on my space, I'll be over on my space, I don't want to stay depressed over a idiot man who don't give 2 shits about me. I may stick around just to give any kind of advice or help, I don't know yet.? On My Space I will continue to be in groups for prisoners, ones that I don't know, and ones that I do know if they want to be added to my sight. There are 3 of you on here that know my space sight and what it looks like. Every thing in reference to Freddy will be removed. So why am I talking like this, his lies, his deceit, the ring, going against our attorney that busted her ass off for him, writing a letter to his alibi witness, "CONTENTS OF THE LETTER", calling me tonight and saying F-U, more or less to me, and his alibi witness------saying he guesses there is no more to talk about, "HANGS UP THE PHONE ON ME..............I gave him 15 very long years of my life, I should of known, he is not different then others I knew. If he does not get released I am through, this is no more lip service as he would put it, I am through, and even if he gets released, who wants to be with a man who wants to have 2 woman, his fantasy, screw him. God forgive me I said for better or for worse, but its gone beyond worse. Thank you for reading and letting me vent, I am so darn angry, and so is every one else with him.
Lynn
deleted_user
deleted_user
we will miss you very much you gave me good advice in the past but you need to do what you think is best for you. good luck
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will miss you. You gave me alot of good advice. good luck in your decision. you have to do what is best for you. It is time to tink about yourself and your life. please keep in touch.
hugs
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm still quite new to this site but would be sad to see you go , you were one of the first people to send me a hug and it means a lot to find people who know how you're feeling . As the above replies say though you need to decide what's right for you . Good luck and take care , will be thinking of you .
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will miss you. You have always been so kind and generous with your advice and sharing your wisdom. You don't deserve the treatment you have gotten. You are so much better and deserve someone who will treasure you. But you have loved and sometimes loving takes a toll. And it's not easy to let go of those we love. If you do decide to leave us go in peace and know that you have impacted so many people on this site.
jody0385
jody0385
That is a very long time to commit to someone that you didn't have a street relationship with. The fantasy thing I think is probably pretty normal. But the rest certainly isn't. He shouldn't be that way with you or the people who have tried to help him. I hope you'll stay. I know there are a lot of users here that don't use myspace (me included) but we like your input. You've got 15 years of experience and knowledge and that is invaluable to some of us. I hope you find happyness no matter what you choose to do.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Lynn...I am sure that you have made a choice that is very hard for you. I hope that you do not leave this site, you give a lot to people going through the same things. Besides you would miss us as much as we would miss you. LOL I understand what you are saying.(Thanks) There are so many what if's in sticking it out. I hate to see you hurt like this after all you have done for Freddy. One thing you found out is that he is not a very smart man...sorry, but treating someone the way he is treating you after you giving him all you had is not a good move on his part. All of us that have been blessed in having you as a friend. You have been a rock for Freddy, now it is time to take care of Lynn. What ever happens, if you deside to leave this site, know that you have helped me and so many others get through many painful moments in our lifes. You have touched me deeply. I will be over on my space as your friend always. Your not getting rid of me that easy. I still need you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh Lynn, don't leave us. You're our sister and our friend. We need you! You're a part of us, and we're a part of you. It's like losing a an eye or a hand. WE are all important to the group because each brings his or her own strengths to the body of members. Please don't go! WE want to be here for you now, just as you have been here for us through our various crisis. Lean on us, as we have leaned on you. We love you!
deleted_user
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Lynn, I am sorry that Freddy has not lived up to be the man you needed him to be. You have to do what is best for YOU. I wish you well and hope to continue hearing from you.

Connie
Mamabear59
Mamabear59
Thank you all for your input, I haven't made up my mind yet on what I am going to do as far as this community, I may stick around. Why should I leave just because of Freddy? I had a long talk today with one of my sister-in-laws, I only speak to one, and she feels the same way I do. Freddy is to institutionalised, not sure how to spell it, but even so, if he didn't want out he could of told me so instead of being so darn cruel, instead of betraying us, especially me, and then to just hang up on me, thats just pure disrespect. I'm sorry, who would even think I would get so mixed up with my emotions. I for one can no longer follow my heart when it comes to him, he has, and will destroy me more. If he does not make it I'm through with him, that I know, I have to follow my mind. I'm here, I'll continue to be here. I just have to try to keep off the subject of Freddy. Thank you for listening.
deleted_user
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I understand your upset and have full respect for you either way you decide. I personally feel that even if you do not stay with Freddy, you have so much info and knowledge to share with some of these ladies that are new to all of this. Consider sticking around, hun, please!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ok Mamabear; Now you know you can not leave. You bring so much love here. There are many of the newbies that can learn from the expirence you have walked with Freddy. I think what ever may happen I think you will continue to need our strength as much as we need yours. You have so many friends here who cheerish your friendship. If you should have to go I totally understand. I still know where to find you. HUGGS TO YOU! YOU HAVE MY SUPPORT WHERE EVER YOU MAY BE.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would miss you very much. I understand you need to do whats best for you now, and I think thats great. I also wanted you to know that your advice and friendship have been very special and I hope you stay around.
deleted_user
deleted_user
They have groups for prisoners on myspace?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I understand your feelings of betrayal, but I think the ladies on this site can add some insight for you.
I also know that you've been a help to others.
Time to think of yourself and what you need...and let Freddy worry about Freddy.
Good luck.
stevescutie
stevescutie
I really hope you don't leave mama. I really value your advice, honesty and frienship and I am sure lots of others do to. It will be a great loss to the site if you leave :-( xx
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