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He ask me if he could sell his wedding band?

Mamabear59
Mamabear59
I don't even believe he ask me this question, today I'm angry, and hurt, he better watch himself I can type up a instant divorce no problem, and file it under a poor person, and he knows it. I'm more hurt because it has sentimental value, he sells the ring I'm done. My band got stollen, but I wear a ring on a necklace, and I bought another for my finger, I only paid $5.00 dollars a ring on line, their covered with fake gold, but his ring to the set was over $100.00 in 1996, how could he even ask me? He said he isn't going to, for his well being he better not, I will walk straight out of his life. Some how I have to see him, and he better have his ring.
Lynn
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh I dont blame you for being upset over that. Maybe guys just dont get it but there is serious emotional value to wedding rings for women.

I really hope that he is smart enough to not sell it even if he thinks he can get away with it. That would just be way too much of a slap in the face.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Lynn...I am so sorry that he would even mention something like this to you. Not much I can do but send you a big hug. (((((hugs)))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hugs to you. That is a hurtful thing to be asked.
stevescutie
stevescutie
Just wanted to give you a hug cos your feeling so bad over this xx I'm sorry I cant give you advice but you have every right to be mad. Hopefully he will see sense.
deleted_user
deleted_user
i feel so bad for you. i can't even begin to imagine how he could have even thought about such a thing, let alone speak those words to you. men---i swear they are from another world-like mars. i pray for peace in your heart, and direction. they are such kunckle heads~i know this, yet they continue to amaze me EVERY SINGLE DAY!
prayers and hugs
Mamabear59
Mamabear59
Thank You all so much, we have had our ups, our downs, but this has crushed me, I just don't know any more, please read my other post.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Would he prefer a ring around his neck?? Oh mamabear I am sorry that he is being such a man and didn't think that his words would hurt you. I wonder what is going on in his head. He needs to apologize to you in a big way. Hugs!