Families of Prisoners Support Group

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patnard 12/28/2013

Thank God one more year over. I am so miserable, I can't stand myself. I know I have so much to be grateful for and I am but, But what? I don't know, could it be that I hate living in this house, stuck in the basement apartment with my son and his wife having no consideration for the noise they make at all hours of the night, yup, could it be that I am taken for granted yup, there are so many other things my list could go on and on. Right now it is 9:10 at night and they have the stereo blasting. my grandson is sleeping in the next room and I have a rotten headache.
I feel like every time my husband calls he can hear the frustration in my voice even though I try and hide it, he knows me too well. I have tried to talk to my son and things will get better for a few weeks and then the cycle starts all over again and I am really getting tired of it.
For right now I am stuck her because of financial situations or believe me I'd be out the door. I'm sorry I'm rambling , I just needed to vent a little. I'm going to try and go to sleep with my ear plugs in.

Suchaslife 12/28/2013

If you were closer pat I would let ya have my spare room....iam not a big fan of lots of noise at night.
The upside is with the year ending its a year closer to them coming home and one less we have to do.

patnard 12/29/2013

If you were closer I'd take you up on that offer, lol. Thanks for the positive side too your right it is another year closer to my honey coming home.
Hugs,
Pat

vckmag42 12/29/2013

Sorry Pat, I know what a bother it is and I understand your mood. Sometimes understanding what we want helps. I'm trying to develop better communication skills so I can understand myself. One thing I've learned today; Try to control your emotions and let them know how you feel. I'm praying for you right now and for peace.
HUGS

ihatewisconsin 12/29/2013

I would definitely get you out of there, if you were closer. Wanna move to the country in WI??? We are making an offer on an old farmhouse. Plenty of bedrooms. Come on, make the move. I need a friend out here in HOOTERVILLE.... and you could use a change of scenery.

Seriously, I would love to get you out of all of that. Vent all you want. We all do it. I sure did.

patnard 12/29/2013

Thanks my friends, I's love to take up and move but financially I'm stuck. I don't think I could leave my grandkids either, some days their all that keep me going. When my husband comes home I just might take you up on that offer Wisconsin, I could live in Hooterville, LOL.
Love you all,
Pat

Suchaslife 12/30/2013

Hooterville???
You do need a bit of time away from the craziness pat.....you and ihate need to start paddling! It's nice and warm hear!

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