Families of Prisoners Support Group
This community is dedicated to families that have been disrupted by prison. Having a loved one incarcerated or having been incarcerated comes with its own unique challenges that require support and understanding. Join the group to find others who know what you're going through, and to seek advice or share your experience.

did she call you her self? Yes prisoners can bs with the best of them so be careful with what another prisoner has told you.
maybe ask someone else at the prison about it? Someone who deals with the visit side of things.
I got a call awhile ago from a guy to tell me my fiance was sick so was missing class and had to take a " lay in", which meant confined to his room all day. So I was upset he couldn't talk to me, but at least I knew what was going on.
I would call the prison and ask if she is able to have visits because you heard she had, and that someone there told you not to come. These people working in the prisons are sometimes dumb, and sometimes just cruel. My guy said the guards hate visits. WHY??? The ones assigned to the visiting check in have it so easy. they simply do the metal detector, look you up, and let you in. The ones in the visiting room basically all stand around and bs to each other. And open the door for the guys and for us. What a HARD job!!! I wish mine was that easy and I got paid what they do.
I think the guards hate visits because it is loud and they have extra people to watch. Too bad they should get another job if they can't deal with it.
As for the phone call, my husband will give my # to another prisoner, one who he can trust and then that guy gives it to his wife or girlfriend so when something happens ( it could be anything) that guy has his girl call me to let me know what's going on. He can't call himself because all prisoners have to have a list of people they can call.
I know it is hard to trust inmates but it's always good to have one so they can have info sent to you.
It does suck that you missed a visit. If this ever happens again I would double check with a supervisor.
Hugs,
Pat