Families & Friends Of Addicts Support Group
Addiction affects more than just the individual. This community is dedicated to the families and friends of individuals suffering from any form of addiction. Mental health professionals are increasingly considering alcoholism and addiction as diseases that flourish in and are enabled by family systems. Family members react to the addicted person with particular behavioral...
I always wondered if his LD issues were something that contributed...
Similar to you Kim we believed Paul to be an exceptional child and now spend lots of time wondering what we missed or did wrong and/or asking ourselves where we went wrong...
He is a very talented artist and learns new job skills very easy. Needs to be busy busy all the time.
He was always an impulsive risk taker. Frequent injuries because he was the one to risk the big hill in his skateboard or scale the 8 foot fence.
So your weird question is quite interesting. Am I describing your child?
I am noticing other patterns, though. He's left-handed and dyslexic. I've also wondered about any relationship to his malnutrition as a baby and a very high fever (105) as a toddler for two separate illnesses.
There have been studies that show people with dyslexia, ADD, ADHD and mental illness are more likely to abuse drugs and alcohol. You know, that whole "dual diagnosis" thing. I definitely believe my son's ADD contributed to his addiction.