Son returned from residential and seems to be doing "okay". He obeys all the house rules and has been pleasant. So what is the problem? A few things that concern me and if these are red flags, they need to be addressed now rather than later. He attends AA but only 3 times a week (maybe - doesn't always bring home signatures), he doesn't have a job and has too much free time, I saw cell phone calls on-line that he contacted a drug using friend, AND my husband had a stash of singles and fives in his glove compartment yesterday that is now missing. My son was picked up last night by our older son and while our older son was in the store, he was alone in the car. I know it wasn't smart for my husband to put the money there (especially since it doesn't belong to him) but it is what it is. The son that we think that took it swears he had a stash from his job he had before going into rehab. The boss paid him cash. He said there was no way he could have spent all the money from his job. I asked him why he would have just singles and fives - when I'm sure his boss paid him with bigger bills and he was adament that those smaller bills were the change from his pay. He is SO convincing but I've been telling him that I DON'T believe him....
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