Families & Friends Of Addicts Support Group
Addiction affects more than just the individual. This community is dedicated to the families and friends of individuals suffering from any form of addiction. Mental health professionals are increasingly considering alcoholism and addiction as diseases that flourish in and are enabled by family systems. Family members react to the addicted person with particular behavioral...

Children first and foremost.
Hugs. I am sorry.
Try to get the police report and submit to CPS. If they won't give it to you, ask the police to get CPS involved. They have the authority to do so. Keep calling CPS, they have resources to track down the mom and kids. Also, ask any of their neighbors if they have heard and seen anything with the kids being present and ask them to call CPS. It can be done anonymous.
Do you know where Deven and Lauren are now? If so, I would call CPS on the Mom.
Do you know the previous CPS worker that was assigned to the family? You can try to reach out him/her directly.
I never heard of a lost memory on that drug...but I've never done it (Thank God)...and I don't think my son has either...I've heard he has done everything else thou.
I'm just wondering if he is trying to "pretend" he doesn't remember...because addicted people do that...they try to get us to get us to feel bad....and they are very good at acting.
So sorry your going thru hell...
Know that we are all here for each other. Glad you found this site, it has helped me through so much. Just knowing there are others that can relate is such a huge help.
And by all means take care of yourself!
Big hugs