Hello everyone!! I feel that my husband is addicted to porn, but refuses to see it. It has cause SO many issues with us and our relationship, we have lived separate for a year (I just moved back a month ago), almost leading to divorce (and we've been married less than 3 years). I honestly don't know what to do any more. He will watch porn when I'm right upstairs, or even asleep next to him, instead of turning to me. He will watch it for an hour at a time or more. He has THOUSANDS upon thousands of photos and videos saved. We've talked about how it makes me feel and he says it's always been something he's liked, and that's it. I don't know what to say or how to relay that he needs help, other than telling him like I have in the past. Instead he just thinks that my issue is I don't like porn, which is not the case at all, it the frequency and him choosing it when I am right there. For instance, last night I fell asleep on the couch watching tv together, this morning I looked at his google photos, he was looking and saving porn for over an hour while I was asleep right next I him. I am only 29, and do not want to do this for the rest of my life. Constantly wondering and knowing that this will always be an issue. 

Any tips or anything I can do? 

All of our issues somehow get turned on me, so I'm forced to believe that I am the problem. Then when I talk to others I feel like I am not, that he is manipulating the situation, and it's just so so so hard.