this has been a long road,,,,, 22 year old daughter with two kids,,, once was in rehap for pills,,, 27days, thoought she turned her life around, got involved withsome in after care,, which we strongly advised against, but at 22,, ;uhm,,, have no control,,, make long strory short,, she went on a threek week binge,,, she called said she sorry,, wanted to come back home,, well we are new to this,, so of course we let her,, we have on of her children (which we are getting custody of on wed),, and it was sept 11,, so watching the whole 9-11 think sofften our hearts,, ugh,, well the very next day, she was arrested,, for stealing, spendt 30 days in jail, refuse to bail her out,,, went and visit her every week towards the end of her jail time,, she looked the best she had in a while, talked,, she actually smiled, and laughed,, she got out,, and 1 week later out doing herion now,,, she took off on the 24th of oct, and has not been home since,,,, spendt that whole week not kinowing if she was dead or alive,, finally someone spotted her, I went to where she was,, (bus stop) her reply was why are you following me,,going into rehap,,, blah, blah,, this is a short version,,, I will not allow her back into our home, she has a five year old, that I need to protect, as well as my three other kids(which are 15,16, and 19), and my husband and I,,, know I'm in anger mode,,, she actually is mad at us,,,, I've been wracking my brain as to why,,, I know it's the drugs talking,,, we have always been close, but I realize in many ways in the past I enabled her,.,,, I know I'm just babbling,, bbut needed to relase some of my anxieties,,, we are searching for a naracon meetings in our area,,, cause I need to surround myself with other parents with this issue.... I f you have read this whole thing,,, thank you!