That sucks! I hope you are feeling better very soon. My hubby is always "chilling" while I am working my butt off, but somehow he is still the one who needs a "break", so I know how you feel, bitchiness totally appropriate!

thanks Laura :)

I know exactly what you mean. My son works a line job in a factory 5 hours a day, 5 days a week. I work a full-time job as a CPA.

I cook dinner most nights and pick up the dishes. Every weekend I do 5 loads of laundry, pay the bills, do the grocery shopping, and clean the house. He watches TV, smokes weed in his room, and makes a mess of the kitchen. Maybe he'll help carry in groceries. When I get ticked off at him, he whines that his job his harder than mine, so he needs his weekends off to recover. Then he has the nerve to criticize me for not having any fun with my life, as if the fact that I'm working every waking minute might not have something to do with it!

Oh, and if I dare enter his room to pick up towels to do laundry, or to check for rotting food, I get screamed at to get out of his room. In my own house!

I hit "add" too soon.

Pamper yourself. You have the right to feel bitchy. You deserve it. I hope you feel better soon.