Hi my love, glad things are going ok,,, I have one week to get ready for my daughter, she will be hopefully released after 6 months of jail , am I ready?,,,, good question,,, I'm in a better place emotionally then where I was, when this all started , I have you guys, what more do I need,,,,



Your deffinetly at a better place too,,, don't change your life ,,, proud of you!!

Hugs
Kim

Hi hoping good to hear from you and glad things are going well. In answer to your question is it wrong to not want to have your son living with you absolutely not you have every right to want to live your life the way you want to we know how much you love your son and you always will but you have a right to peace clean house your own schedule etc... Good luck I hope he passes that driving test next time and finds a full time job so he can get on with his life too. And Cardinal Good luck with your daughters release I hope and pray that the time she spent in jail will work in her favor and keep her on her road to recovery! Hugs Dee

my son moved out last March so its been just over a year. It has been so much better at home. When he was here it was like we were always walking on eggshells, trying to not upset him. When he left it was hard not knowing what he was into but sometimes it ws better. Now I hear hes very sick and has an arrest warrent out for him (violating his probation again) I have no idea where he is or how to even reach him and I feel bad but when he lived at home it was worse. Do not feel bad for wanting your own son out of your home. You deserve to live your life the way you choose too not the way your addict wants you too.

He has a HUGE passion for renewable energy and working to put out in the marketplace a wind turbine that is esthetically pleasing from the traditional windmills...so he has spent MANY hours researching learning, etc....so he finds a listing on Craigslist and answers the ad. It is a guy who has had a medical set back and needs a pair of hands and eyes to finish his work....so I investigated this guy and he is so legit and not only into renewable energies but also has a recording studio (my son plays guitar and sings...pretty good too ;O)...he gets it from me! LOL...I have been a singer all my life and made a good living from it...

So the guy called here yesterday and he wants to meet with him. He told him what he would pay under the table, and he has a condo that he can stay at, free of charge, sent him pics, looks nice, and my son is familiar with the area....they talked further and this guy has so much going on, needless to say the kid is SO excited and it is a HUGE opportunity for him.....not sure how it will play out....I'm always of 'if it sounds TOO good to be true, it USUALLY is..." But who knows? Look at Zuckerberg or Gates...they had 'crazy' ideas and look where they are now. This kid is NOT dumb by any means, quite the opposite, but simply doesn't apply himself....this man graduated from Harvard, has about 4 companies and has his own personal sailing vessel that is beautiful....

I've got my fingers crossed.....I'm hoping that he can come to me one day and say 'TOLD YOU SO!"......

And me? I just got the job from my company that I've been waiting on for about 4 months...FINALLY! LOL....

So your prayers are needed for him that this pans out the way he wants it to....and that he applies himself accordingly!

Thanks all and
KIM: I'm praying for you...I'm here for you as well...
Marg: I"m so sorry! It's a tug of our hearts and hurts sometimes so bad....but maybe this will be what he needs to move forward positively? Hugs to you....
Deehigs: Thank you.....I'm hoping your having a great day and heres to him passing that driving test LOL