Good for you. Last time my husband fell off teh wagon i drove myself crazy checking up on him, trying to see if he was alright, seeing where he was and who he was with, and trying to prove to him I knew he was on the drug.
This time I am not doing that. He moves into an apartment today. I don't know how I will make it fincialy but I don's want that lifestyle for myself or my childern. Tough love is tough.

I think you are making a wise choice.

Good job,, Girl,,,, see you setting boundaries for yourself,, as well as your addicit,,,,you can not control his addcicition,, your can only control yourself,,, Proud of you,,, trust me it's a tough journey,,, but if you believe, you will succeed in peace.

I hate heroin. I hate this. I miss that man I fell in love with. I miss our life together. He's not going to contact me today. I should just give up.

the point is not just "making him come to you"...it is letting go. There is no control so you just let it flow....
my mom always said "bad news travels fast" so maybe no news is no news...
You should try to spend time on doing things you need or want to do and not worry. worry does nothing but waste your energy.
A wise move to give yourself some peace, if you let it work for you, not make you feel worse. A big hug to you.

I know all those things. I know I need to let go. But knowing, doesn't make it any easier. It doesn't take away the pain.

In a day or two he will be calling or texting you. I know how hard this can be, the first few times are the hardest. Its hard to let go but at the same time we have to for our own sanity.