Families & Friends Of Addicts Support Group
Addiction affects more than just the individual. This community is dedicated to the families and friends of individuals suffering from any form of addiction. Mental health professionals are increasingly considering alcoholism and addiction as diseases that flourish in and are enabled by family systems. Family members react to the addicted person with particular behavioral...
I would offer her the opportunity to stay as a guest under xyz conditions and only if she remains sober. I would offer to take her to doctor's appointments, and her first meetings to meet people to get rides from (if she needs them) and i would require that she gets a job...pay you rent (save it for a deposit for her for her own place if you can afford to) Or have her look into a halfway house, or sober living house. Open communication.
and I used to say to people (very casually without realizing how it sounded) that if they saw me running naked down the street with my hair on fire, they would know I had snapped....my one old gentleman neighbor said( pondering it all) "huh, That sure would be interesting"..
We are here for you, hon!