Families & Friends Of Addicts Support Group
Addiction affects more than just the individual. This community is dedicated to the families and friends of individuals suffering from any form of addiction. Mental health professionals are increasingly considering alcoholism and addiction as diseases that flourish in and are enabled by family systems. Family members react to the addicted person with particular behavioral...
Boundaries are guidelines or limits that we create for safe and peaceful ways for other people to behave around. The purpose of boundaries is to protect and take care of ourselves , Beable to tell others when they are not acting in a acceptable way,,,
Visual effect of boundaries,,, are lines in a road we are driving on, without those total craziness would take place, cars would be all over the place, boundaries are set in work places,,, without them production would never be achieved therefore how could one ever get paid for their services,,,
My point in this post is,, boundaries should be implace to create peace and harmony,,,, it takes practice to actively have a boundary work,,,
Boundaries give security a sense of where the limits of everyday life should be met, without them reason to focus on goals, or move forward to a better place becomes a dream without a foundation, which washes a way,,,
Perfection impossible,,, progress priceless
Believing is the dream made possible Boundaries give us the foundation
Visual effect of boundaries,,, are lines in a road we are driving on, without those total craziness would take place, cars would be all over the place, boundaries are set in work places,,, without them production would never be achieved therefore how could one ever get paid for their services,,,
My point in this post is,, boundaries should be implace to create peace and harmony,,,, it takes practice to actively have a boundary work,,,
Boundaries give security a sense of where the limits of everyday life should be met, without them reason to focus on goals, or move forward to a better place becomes a dream without a foundation, which washes a way,,,
Perfection impossible,,, progress priceless
Believing is the dream made possible Boundaries give us the foundation
And when I dreamt of a man to spend my life with, it wasn't someone who stole or lied to me...having an ideal relationship in mind may not have been totally realistic, but it gave me a standard of measure. I wanted respect, honesty, communication, fidelity, committment, kids, faith, morals.....When I found someone like that, I knew I had the right person.
Good post cardinal. boundaries aren't restrictive..they are freedom.