I feel for you. That's the addict talking. I took my son back to treatment (he's only 16), he told me not to come to family day, he won't speak to us, he doesn't want to be sober and he will relapse worse when he gets out.
It is so hard to deal with; we only want what's best for them and in the meantime we are so worried about them. Sadly we can't make them sober.
I work in health care, tell the nurse or ask to speak to the Social Worker, they can and will offer treatment options. If it comes from someone else it might work. You can also request the nurse and Social Worker keep what you folds them confidential.
Other than that keep praying and take care of yourself. Hugs.

so you now have permission to let the cards fall where they do...no guilt. don't think that she fools the hospitals all the time...she is on a list somewhere. then? no more goodies from hospitals...just offers for treatments.
she would be better off if every hospital in the state knew about her issues.
SO, she told you straight out what you really already knew.
Hard, but it could be kind of liberating....

We must protect ourselves from a loved one's disease...the emotional, and spirtual part is so so hard...
sometimes I wonder if the real person in them is hoping we can stay strong for when/if they are released from the grip/compulsion...??
My belief is only with God's help.