Families & Friends Of Addicts Support Group
Addiction affects more than just the individual. This community is dedicated to the families and friends of individuals suffering from any form of addiction. Mental health professionals are increasingly considering alcoholism and addiction as diseases that flourish in and are enabled by family systems. Family members react to the addicted person with particular behavioral...

Things will only get better if he can remain sober.
Remember...you can't fix everything in one day.....so breathe...your taking the first step.
I would suggest going to the library and reading the book Financial Peace, by Dave Ramsey...he is christian based, but if you are, or not, the information is sound.
at one point I had the moneypit for a house and I used his book to dig us out of a deep hole.
We are only as sick as our secrets. Into the light....into freedom!