A week ago I was taking a nap when My AH came into my room yelling that he was moving out because I don't love him anymore. He accused me of throwing his pajamas away and went on to yell that I never get a babysitter for us on his days off...After I got up he asked if I was having a panic attack because it looked like it he claims...Later that night after he had passed out and got up again. He said that he doesn't want to have to worry all the next day at work about how pissed I am at him. This is the scoop...we have been fighting every week about these "things" and then he gets drunk a couple days later and brings up all these things again...so I'm mad again so we fight again so that he can bring it up again...and so on so on...I don't want to keep doing this..its exhausting! Tired of talking to him about what he did to upset me or just go on Like nothing happened so he wont have a reason to be mad at me and blame me...He says I blame him for everything and I don't have enough sex with himand says he guesses it is because hes such an asshole and what am I supposed to say? Hes drunk anyway so I walk away and he cant stand it and gets upset that I cant look at him....last weekend he got beer and sat out in the driveway and told me he was too scared of ME to come inside. Then when he did come inside I said nothing and he told our son he was so scared within MY hearing..I tried to avoid him that night but made a good dinner all the while trying to stay calm so HE wont be scared while hes sitting here drinking. When I talked to him About this a few days later he said he could feel how pissed I still was and so he was worried. Does this all just sound so manipulative or what???!!!??!?!?