Endometriosis Support Group
Endometriosis is a common medical condition where the tissue lining the uterus is found outside of the uterus, typically affecting other organs in the pelvis. The condition can lead to serious health problems, primarily pain and infertility. A major symptom of endometriosis is pain, mostly in the lower abdomen, lower back, and pelvic area.
What I can say about your pain, is there is a possibility that is it caused by something else. My surgeon was extremely up front and told me surgery isn't a guarantee, because do have other things going on. But you also have cysts and I don't care what any Dr says, those can be painful.
Good luck with your decision.
I can understand where your doctor is coming from because with any trusted treatment like excision and BCP/Lupron it really should work for MOST people. However, that doesn't mean you are most people and he has to recognize that. Unfortunately you could be that small group that it doesn't work for.
And yes it could be something else...But I still think it's smart to treat for endo because it just might work. I would exhaust the options you are comfortable with for treating endo before trying to see if something else is the cause because otherwise you'll feel like it's just endo and you didn't try everything. If you exhaust your treatment options then it makes sense to see if there could be another cause, afterall what else could you do even if it is endo?
I was never comfortable with Lupron, but it does work for many women and if I were miserable enough I just might try it. As for the what to do after the 6 months to 1 year of Lupron - if it really worked well for me I would be open to an oophorectomy (removal of ovaries), but obviously that's a super tough and personal choice to make. Also, I know they've been working on a long term pill option so it might be available in the future and you'd know pretty well if it'd work for you.
Also, like VallyWillis mentioned my doctor (he is recognized as an endo specialist) told me my recurrence rate post-op as a late twenties age stage 4 case is about 50%. I don't think this means your doctor is a bad doctor or anything, different doctors can have different and successful approaches...I got 3 conflicting opinions prior to my second lap and I just had to go with the one that seemed the best for me...hard choice for sure.
(sorry this reply got super long!)