Endometriosis Support Group
Endometriosis is a common medical condition where the tissue lining the uterus is found outside of the uterus, typically affecting other organs in the pelvis. The condition can lead to serious health problems, primarily pain and infertility. A major symptom of endometriosis is pain, mostly in the lower abdomen, lower back, and pelvic area.
So while getting a lap is a decision only you can make I highly suggest it if you are wanting to 1) know if you have endo and 2) want more information about this before making such a huge decision as being a hysterectomy.
With the heavy bleeding I wonder if anyone has brought up the possibility of adenomyosis? Unfortunately it can only be definitely diagnosed after a hysterectomy, but many ob/gyn's can heavily suspect it based on a lap and your uterus' appearance. In the case of suspected adeno I'd be more willing to have a hysterectomy, although I'd keep my ovaries still (they are often removed when dealing with endo).