i dont know what to do anymore well first off my name is Meagan I am 22 years old. My periods started being all out of whack after my appendectomy in June 07. I was having 6 periods a month. all very heavy. so i switched birth control pills well those made me very sick so my ex- dr said i should have an IUD placed. well 2 days later i was running a very high temp and was in so much pain. i had it removed. about a week later i was in the hospital again for pelvic inflammitory disease. my pain from any of this has never gone away. its been 3 months now since the IUD alreadt my hubby and i are at odds, my family thinks im faking since my laprascopy looked great. they didnt see anything. but he said it could be small or somewhere they didnt look. Im debating whether or not to call him tomorrow. my hubby and i tried to have intercourse and lately the pain has gotten better but when we tried it was like the end of the world i was in just so much pain. it was like someone was stabbig me. I feel like I cannot keep doing this. Ive been to 4 drs. Im so scard to tell the dr who did my surgery that i am still having severe pain. I should also mention ive been on some pretty big narcotic pain meds for the past three months. have pretty much stopped taking them too. now for 3 weeks almost 4. Im just scared to tell him because everyone says it is in my head. My heart thinks otherwise. I know im not feeling right. my periods have never been so heavy or painful. sex has never hurt before this much. i get tired doing the simplest of things and i am constantly in pain. lately it has been more of a sore feeling crampy kinda but since the "incident" this morning I hurt very badly like something is ripping through me. it is in my back and hips and pelvic area. i have a bump which is raised and bruised between my pelvis and hip kinda in the middle there i know its not a gland or lymph node but it hurts a lot and the pain just radiates. When it hurts like that I get light headed and dizzy. I dont know if anyone else has had this.. I dont want to tell my hubby or show him either. he gets so mad at me this morning he got me a tylonol sighed and said i thought we were over this honey. Im just so depressed by all of this. I dont know what to do. has anyone ever been through this? My hubby is a medic so he worries about me period but this is really tearing us apart.
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