Endometriosis Support Group
Endometriosis is a common medical condition where the tissue lining the uterus is found outside of the uterus, typically affecting other organs in the pelvis. The condition can lead to serious health problems, primarily pain and infertility. A major symptom of endometriosis is pain, mostly in the lower abdomen, lower back, and pelvic area.
Yes, surgery is the only way to officially diagnose endo. They can also remove some/all endo through surgery, but that doesn't get rid of the problem and many women need to be on bc after surgery, anyways.
You have to do what is best for you! If you are not able to work, maybe surgery is right for you. That is basically when I had surgery...when I was missing so much work due to mysterious pain anyways. I was in pain all month long. On the other hand, surgery is surgery and it sounds like you've been through a lot already. It might be worth it to just try bc to see if it helps.