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Allowing the Emotional affair ppl meet

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So am I stupid or just plain fucking crazy? My GF expressed that she in a mild way regrets not meeting the OP she had an online affair with. So what do I do offer to take her to meet him. I am torn by my decision but ultimately feel she is so unaware of her own self this may be the best thing for her. I was her 1st and only and she is sure she is BI and I will be going to meet him with her. Worse case scenario they hit it off and she falls deeply in love with him as I was with her prior to D-day.
I do not want her to recent me for not meeting him if she did not move in with me 1 week prior to their original meet date she might be happy right now.
I would like any help support suggestions on how to stay OK with this for her and myself. Maybe finally bring some closure to our future together as a couple getting over an affair or her to be with him in RL and not just his avatar online or talking to him on the phone.
May be the worst decision I ever made in my life may be the best we shall see..........
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As long as she is happy in the end and finds herself then I will at least be contempt with the fact I helped her in some way to overcome her social anxiety.
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