So, I feel really ashamed to bring this up. But I don't know what to do. My daughter is 14, the past year maybe longer she has changed her eating habits dramatically. She limits the amount she eats during dinner, takes food to school but brings it back almost every day and binges on sweets some days. She looks like she may be losing weight but having an eating disorder myself I struggle to know how to deal with it because I'm scared of making her worse. I tell her its important she eats 3 meals a day and healthy snacks but she won't listen to me. I buy healthy food and pack her lunches for her and make her eat dinner with me, but she doesn't eat a lot. I force myself to eat when she's around but even that doesn't seem to encourage her. Everyone tells me not to worry about it, but I am, because I recognize the behaviors so much. I'm worried. I used to refuse to eat or complain of feeling sick, now she's doing the same thing. I used to say I had a big lunch, or just ate, now she's using the same excuses. She watched me get down to 75 lbs- at 5'4.5 and have a tube down my throat for 3 months. She made comments about how small I was when her clothes drowned me. I am 113 now, and doing my best to erase my mistakes but I feel the damage is done. I don't know how to talk to her to prevent an eating disorder from developing in her, or getting worse. But then most days I question if I'm projecting and she's fine. Not sure what to think or do. Any thoughts?