First of all, remember that maybe he's trying to not eat infront of you deliberatley (it sounds stupid but my friend did this to me when he found out i was anorexic :S ) an also, you shouldnt hold yourself responsible for him eating less. I think the chances of him developing an ED are qute slim, but talking to him is the only way you'd know for sure. So give that a try.
On the up side though, atleast someone close to you that you love is tryna help you recover!
x

Like Bei said, you should talk to him. There are a lot of reasons for this. He could be eating less to try and make you feel more comfortable about you eating (Might be his way of saying, "This amount is okay!")

Or, honestly, he might not even realize what he's doing. He might all of the sudden be really conscious of what he is eating, because he's keeping track of you. So he might just be dropping down the portion size from being overly aware of what he's putting in his mouth.


Talk to him, be honest about how you feel, and ask him how he feels. Allow him to respond before jumping the gun. But don't have this conversation near or over dinner. Conversations that involve what we intake are just bound to make us concentrate on what we do eat. And if the conversation gets emotional, that can be a trigger too.

You boyfriend needs support to help you, can you go to counselling together? he can't do it alone any more than you can ! xxx