Divorce and Healing Community Group
Divorce Sucks... It splits families, breaks hearts, hurts children, leads to depression, even suicide - you get the point. It is a devastating chaotic event that shakes even the most sound and positive person and makes them crazy lunatics... I joined hoping to connect with others whose lives have been affected by divorce. However, there is not 1 group that I saw at least...
deleted_user
I will start with mine. I was married for 7 years but with my husband for 10. We had 2 children together and I had one before our marriage that he took in as his own. Summer of 2010, I started praying because something just wasn't right. He would fight with me over nothing. He would work more than usual. He would not show up to important dates for the kids... I knew something wasn't right. And it wasn't. He had been seeing a 20 year old trainee that he had been training and of course by seeing I mean screwing. He had been having this affair for 4 months. We tried to make it work but to no avail. our lives got ugly and messy. Instead of praying for normail things like for our marriage to heal - I would pray for a peaceful night because every night there was some type of drama. I left. And after an awful turn of events, I finally filed for divorce. I kept praying for my family because my people do not believe in divorce and here I was ready to end it all. The divorce got messy. There started to be physical abuse and eventually I had to file a protective order. Long story short... I am now in the process of healing. He is back with his 20 year old mistress and my children and I are moving forward.
I still have bad days. sad memories, angry outbursts, and etc... But it is all part of the process so I hear...
So what is your story...
I still have bad days. sad memories, angry outbursts, and etc... But it is all part of the process so I hear...
So what is your story...
deleted_user
Don't know if anyone's still active on this group....I've been married for a little over 5 years. We have 2 young girls. We've had problems all along, and I finally just had enough. I asked him to move out in September. He's been out since the beginning of October. (It's now the middle of February). I'm ready for divorce. There's been no improvement or change for the better in several years. He says I'm breaking my vows, I'm destroying the family, I'm ruining the girls....I told him he could blame me - I really didn't care anymore - but I knew I needed to do this to maintain my sanity. I've totally lost sight of who I am over the past few years and I finally feel like I'm starting to heal since he's been gone. I'm ready for a fresh start. A chance to be me again. A chance to be a happy, healthy mommy to my girls. Maybe that's selfish, I don't know. I can only do what my heart tells me.
bees2000
I'm so sorry. This happens all the time. I love the movie "Its Complicated." It is so sad when young girls flirt with married men while the wife is juggling car pools, dinner, and living. She'll probably dump him soon when reality hits. Hang in there!!!
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