Has anyone had this happen? My ex went went up to our daughter Shelby's work this morning. He said he just wanted to say hi to her in a place where she couldn't hang the phone up or walk away from him. When asked how she was doing she said I have been real busy with having to drop out of school to help mom take care of bills and help with Austin. Right now she said mom is home real sick with the flu throwing up and 103 fever since last night. I'm going to take her some gingerale and crackers on my break. According to Shelby her dad started crying and saying over and over again how sorry he was and what could he do to help. Shelby the strong beautiful girl she is said Dad just pay what your supposed to and be a good dad to Austin he is a little boy who needs you to set a good example. My ex then said to her Shelby i'm your dad too and I miss all of you so much. Then you should of thought about that before you put all of us through all this pain. Especially my mom who did nothing but take of of all of us including you for 23 years i'm ashamed of you dad I never thought you were this kind of man. I wanted you to be the example of what kind of man I wanted to find one day but I hope I never find a man like you selfish and stupid and someone that doesn't care about his family.

The next thing I know there is a knock on my door and it's him holding flowers a bottle of gingerale, crackers and chicken noodle soup????? He said i'm sorry your so sick honey Shelby told me so I wanted to bring some things by to help you feel better. I didn't know what to say to weak to fight with him so I simply said thanks. Then he said why didn't you tell me you were so sick? I said it's not your concern anymore i'm not your concern anymore remember you left me? I still love you and the kids and I care if any of you are sick I just want to help you. I don't need your help or concern just pay your spousal and child support like your supposed to and I don't have to worry about going to work so sick because I can't afford to miss one day.

Why all of sudden is he all concerned about my health. When he ran out on me I almost had a freakin breakdown my blood pressure sky rocketed through the roof and I would have stress panic attacks everyday for about a month or longer. Now after I have gone through all this and i'm almost through the worst of it I am becoming stronger and stronger he shows up with flowers and soup like that is supposed to make up for putting me and the kids through HELL for the past 7 months?????
Any thoughts of what this is all about?????????????????????????????????