Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...
What check list would you have in finding
Another mate after being married for 20 yrs
& then divorce.
Another mate after being married for 20 yrs
& then divorce.
While I doubt that I will get married again, what I AM looking for is an EQUAL PARTNER in a relationship -- emotionally, spiritually and financially. I'm not looking for someone to "take care of" me -- nor am I in the market to "take care of" anyone. I want a real, live ADULT male!
He also would have to be willing to sign a pre-nup agreement if he wanted to marry me -- because I am NEVER going to put myself in a position where I have to fight for what is rightfully mine.
Because I never want another GYN doctor ever to ask IF I am sexually active or not , I just want a long term MONOGAMOUS relationship who will at least hold my hand as I walk into the doctor's office . So, I suppose I'm looking for someone to "take care of" me. [LOL]