Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...
This morning I went online and ordered a new copy of my "lifesaving" book called The Script: The 100% Absolutely Predictable Things Men Do When They Cheat. My old copy has been loaned out so many times since 2005, I now have no idea who has it. So, since it is loaded with information to help a lot of you, I will soon have a new one from which to quote pearls of wisdom. Now...if you can't wait...AND I DO HIGHLY RECOMMEND THAT YOU GET YOUR OWN COPY...it's available on amazon.com and also (my favorite book source) www.wonderbook.com. Written by Elizabeth Landers and Vicky Manzer, had I found this book immediately after my husband "announced his unhappiness" to me (or even immediately after I booted him out of here three weeks later) it would have saved me a whole lot of crazy-making, self-doubt, heartache and legal fees! So...if you are asking yourselves those unanswerable questions: WHY? HOW COULD HE DO THIS? WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? go online and get your own copy right this minute! You WILL NOT REGRET IT! Money well spent!
the Cowgirl
the Cowgirl
I read my copy..and I suggest that if any of you are Newbies... This is a MUCH needed book to reveal the WHY'S and HOW'S. Want to know why he does what he does?....GOT TO READ THIS BOOK AND GET WISE.
I had always not been gullible to other dictates, but obviously was so to my stbx manuipulation for the world to see. The SCRIPT's theory is: the spouse haS dictated and written a script as to how YOU are perceived, how to act and soforth...a role for YOU to part take.. to which the spouse uses against you and LEAVES.