Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...
I have no children but always
Had pets. I Will call my mother
tommorrow i have already sent
her a Card.
Divorce does change your life
In so many ways. I am still trying
To adjust and not be bitter and
angry its a daily struggle.
Hugs
((((((Jljl))))
My son has called. I expect eldest daughter will too. This afternoon my very young grandsons are to be slaves for my second daughter and me. Lol. I expect many glasses of water and maybe some badly painted nails by this evening!!
Love and hugs
kamary
Kamary, that slave idea sounds great! Try rainbow colors. Different color on each nail!
This entire group should be proud of what loving mother's (and dad;s) they are. Have a great day. You deserve it.
My two girls cut me off after the divorce so I also know how that feels. My second daughter reconciled fairly quickly but my eldest did not return to me for 4 1/2 years:( the saddest years of my life. I hope your lost one will return one day, too.
I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a child as you lost your son. My heart goes out to you (((jljlost)))
Love and hugs
kamary
Happy Mother's day to all the great Mother's out here on D&S. I hope that all your children contact you and realize that you gave them life. God bless you all.
My mother passedt away about 8 years ago . she was 92 .never been to a doctor or hospital for 50 or more years of her life. Always took an aspirin for whatever hurt her. God bless her and I will always miss her.
My x mil passed away a coup!e of years ago. Although she never talked to me after the divorce I did get to talk and see her in the hospital before she died. She and I always got along very well. It's a shame that my divorce caused us her to stop talking to me, but I understand that she had to stay by her daughter side......?even though she knew.......?her daughter was wrong. I'm sure that it hurt her very much not to see me. Anyway....., she was a great woman...and what a great cook ! Ha ha.
Soooooooo, again , Happy Mother's day. May you all find peace today.
God bless Bob
your exMIL should have at least one time told you that you didn't mistreat her daughter, when such would have helped you to cope
cmonge, days like Mday can feel like contrived obligation, part of being a parent is being taken for granted, in some ways that is a compliment
I talked to my mother and one of her estranged
sons Showed up today with plants and mowed
the Yard and stayed for two hours.
((((( hugs ))))))
me, but it didn't happen. I'm going to keep this short because its all about mother's today. Thanks again and you're right.
Bob
cmonge that's wonderful!
How did the nails turn out? All one color or rainbow?
Happy Mother's day to you all
HUGS!!!!!