Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group

I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

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over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

nohappy
nohappy
it's over!! woohoo! yippee!! hurray!!

Ok so maybe it is costing me in the long run. I have to pay that $9700 loan but you know what? It is worth it to get that scum sucking,lying, cheating, std carrying, douche bag out of my life. I am on my new book. AND!!!! The judge put a no cap on the support. one of us has to die to stop it. Of course, I can't cohabitate with a non-related male relative but do I have stupid written on me right now?
Misred
Misred
YIPEEEEEE!!!!
MsTerey
MsTerey
I am so glad that it went well for you nohappy! I never really celebrate the divorce, but I celebrate the relief of having it settled! That goes a long way in this process, to know where you are financially!

Rest tonight! You will be tired! Best to you!
trisha9054
trisha9054
Congratulations. That's great about the alimony. Now you can plan how you want the rest of your life to be.
HealingT
HealingT
Congratulations! Today is the first day of the rest of your life - enjoy it! Hugs and all the best to you as you move forward.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am happy for you! It is nice to have that stress off of you!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Congratulations!!!!!!!
I will never forget the big relief i felt when it was finally over!
I am so happy for you!
hugs
hurtinandhealin2560
hurtinandhealin2560
Good for you!!
dairytech
dairytech
Congrats...you are free!
Lori63
Lori63
Congratulations!
Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
yes, congratulations.
Timeman
Timeman
Congrats..GOOD FOR YOU
Doesn't it feel like a big monkey was taken off your back !!!
Yes, now you can start planning your life.
TM
deleted_user
deleted_user
Wonderful news, absolutely wonderful.

Hurray for the courts and PERMANENT spousal support. You certainly deserve.

Enjoy your new freedom.

Party at nohappy's ! ! ! What can I bring?
cantstay2
cantstay2
Congratulations! Enjoy the next chapter!
sfsoccermom
sfsoccermom
Congratulations!
kamary
kamary
That's wonderful news. Congratulations. Happy days ahead.........

love and hugs
kamary
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