Developing a Positive Attitude DAPA Community Group
Hi, This group is dedicated to helping people develop a positive attitude. It is for all depression sufferers, anybody who suffers from anxiety or stress, has suffered bad experiences in the past, or anyone who desires to develop a more positive attitude through positive thinking.
Nettie
All I can say is that untill a 2 weeks ago I had no real idea about how to live one day at a time. Now I have found away and I am very impressed by the effects, which is why I created the group, 'Time Management for The Chronically Disorganized which I mentioned on another post.
The trick is to put your task into a weekly schedule, then you don't need to worry beyond the end of the day because it is all in the schedule. If something comes up that is urgent just try to schedule it into that day and reschedule some other stuff. If there is no time to finish it that day, schedule it for the next day and forget about it till morning.
There is nothing that helps you stop worrying about stuff more than having a written intention to do something about it on a given day at a given time.
Also when you acknowledge that it is only worth thinking about the past to find lessons for today and that you can never truly see the future then you will stop worrying about past and future and live for today.
So no regrets for yesterday, no fears for tomorrow, just make the most of today.
In my own case though I find that if I do not note the activities I have done in the day before I end the day I am in danger of letting my schedule slip.
i find gratitude shines a glow over all the pain i have been through..i LOVE gratitude.
i have been through HELL..but i am still one lucky person in a lot of ways.
i DO worry about tomorrow too much..after all..there is no tomorrow..only NOW.
so why worry about it? yet i still do...something for me to work on :)
What will be will be, I live for today.