I knew how your question was going to end before I got a chance to read all of your topic. Why would you say something like that? You say "but me" as though you have a child, and then you say, sigh, I would just mess them up. So, do you have kids? and if you do, I am sure they are gorgeous. And I'll be glad when they are old enough to tell their mother she is gorgeous too.

No I don't have any children I've always dreamed of having them I think all children are beautiful. I just never keep men long enough and wouldn't have the means financially or emotionally to support them that's why I think I'd mess them up, how can I teach a child to have confidence when I have non

when the times right it will happen :)

PeoPle keep telling me that... But I am getting older thanks though

One of my friends on here was convinced she would never have a child. She had polycystic ovaries and poor chances of conceiving and blah blah and was getting really down and out about the whole situation
She stopped worrying about it and accepted she was going to have to look into alternatives of how to get pregnant and BANG she was pregnant
She's since had 2 wonderful children. When the time was right for her it happened. When the time is right for you it will happen.

Why not concentrate on loving YOU for now, before worrying about bringing up a child. As you said how can you teach a child confidence when you have none. So focus on you are getting some confidence and maybe that will meet you a man wirth waiting for